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Friday, August 28th, 2020
Well, Hurricane Laura hooked to the east once it entered Arkansas, so my little town was spared the tornadoes, the 90-mile-an-hour gusts, and the heaviest rain. Whew! We do have a huge yard/pasture cleanup adventure ahead of us because of all the fallen branches, but no huge limbs landed on the house so we’re breathing a sigh of relief. We were even spared power outages. The town next to us had hours of outage, but not us!
While we waited, I kept my computer powered down and unplugged because I didn’t want to risk any damage, so that left me with art projects to keep my time filled with something kind of mindless.
The night before, my sister, Elle James, visited. We caught up on family gossip and she delivered bags of clothes she was shedding from her closet to my girls. There’s nothing quite like her hand-me-downs—some of which look as though they were never worn. It’s always like Christmas. She had a small jewelry bag amid her bounty. I grabbed it up because I liked the pattern and thought it might inspire an art project—and it did.
This was one of the pieces I worked on while the storm raged outside…
So, now that everything’s kind of back to normal, I’ll reset my brain to think about “words” instead of “pictures”. It’s actually rather hard for me to bounce back and forth because painting is such a happy place for me to be these days.
As for anyone who’s made it this far into this post ( 🙂 ), here’s a list of open contests. Be sure to enter today! Some are going away… Tomorrow, I’ll be back with something fresh and fun! ~DD
Open Contests
- Cage is out! (Puzzle-Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Tell me a story… (Puzzle-Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Back to school…or not? (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- #1 place I want to visit post-COVID! (Contest–2 winners!) — Win a FREE book!
- Reina Torres: Some Help from a Friend (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
Tagged: arts 'n' crafts, paint Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 2 People Said | Link
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Tuesday, August 25th, 2020
UPDATE: The winners are…Evie and Normandy Hood!
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I’m not greedy. I don’t need a long trip. Just a long weekend. A quick 7-hour-drive away.
I’m talking about NOLA—New Orleans. That’s the place I’m dying to go back to even though I’ve been there a half-dozen times. The food, the ambience, the crazy residents. I love everything about it.
This was the view from our hotel, I think, last year, when we made a 2-day drive-down/drive-back trip to get our NOLA fix!
This shop’s always a MUST hit place for me to stock up on my voodoo kitsch!
And I love to take kids to “infect” them with my love of the place!
For a chance to win your choice of a download of one of my backlist books, tell me what place you’re dying to see once it’s safe to travel again!
Tagged: New Orleans, travelogue Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 19 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Ani - flchen1 - Charlene Lowe - Courtney Kinder - Delilah -
Sunday, August 23rd, 2020
UPDATE: The winner is…Amy Toohey!
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Tomorrow’s the big day. Only, this year, it’s going to be very different from previous years.
This year, we didn’t have to buy a bunch of new school clothes or backpacks and lunch bags. This year, we had to make trips to the schools to pick up computers and tablets and practice logging into school websites, because in our little town, the school district offered families the option of in-school or virtual instruction, and we chose the virtual route.
We did it for many reasons, tops being—COVID-19. We want everyone to stay safe—students and adults—and when schools can’t prevent outbreaks of head lice in classrooms, we kind of figure they won’t be able to do a lot against an easily transmissible disease. Related reason: They won’t be able to do a lot to prevent outbreaks, so we’ll be ahead of the game when schools shut down again.
The kids were split. The boy hates not being able to hang with friends. The littlest girl will miss being queen bee of the classroom (she was the teacher’s pet last year), but she also loves being with her mama. The oldest girl likes the idea of doing classes online because she’ll have plenty of support from her mom and me when she runs into things she doesn’t understand (math!). They’ve found the self-isolation both fun (because we’ve been very creative about making little things into “events”) and lonely. FaceTime is a sanity-saver, but most of their friends are going back to the classroom, so I worry that their friends will drift away.
Still, we had little choice. With two elderly persons in the house, and one child a two-time cancer survivor, we knew from the outset what we would do if the opportunity was provided.
So, how to make it work and not go nuts?
My daughter has spaces throughout the house for the kids to have privacy to do their lessons. We’re setting alarms so they all start their work at the same time. If they finish early, they have the rest of the day free to do what they want. We’re lucky we have a big house to give everyone their space. If she still lived in her previous house, she said she would have set up posterboard cubicles to separate them at the kitchen table, anything so their line of sight wouldn’t include someone they could start a fight with. We’re an Irish family—there are always a lot of noisy opinions being thrown around.
How will this affect my writing schedule? We’ll see. I imagine mornings I’ll be standing by to provide assistance. Both of us will be running from room-to-room to keep kids on task. When the afternoon comes around—that will be my time. I have to stand firm. Hopefully, my dd can take a nap. 🙂
The upside of all of this? We’ve never been closer as a family. And who wouldn’t want to spend all the time they could with this one?
Contest
For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, answer me this…
How are schools where you are handling school reopenings?
Plus, bonus points for anyone with great ideas to keep kids happy at home!
Tagged: COVID-19 Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 14 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Debra Guyette - Heather - flchen1 - BookLady - Delilah -
Saturday, August 8th, 2020
As a writer, you’re only as good as your editing.
Misspellings, misuse of homonyms, and horrible punctuation will ruin even the greatest stories, and yet, there are times when our brains simply can’t figure out how to fix what’s so obviously wrong.
Take me, for instance. Back in 2005, I’m about seven months pregnant in the summertime in San Antonio, Texas.
For those who’ve never had the experience of walking around in the 100+ degree heat while in your last trimester of pregnancy, consider yourselves blessed. That along with my pregnancy brain in full force, it was truly amazing I never forgot to put pants on every day.
One of the writing organizations I belonged to at the time was the Association of Health Care Journalists. Back when people posted to message boards and Yahoo loops, I posted a response to a question from a fellow member that went out to everyone in the organization.
For whatever reason, I had to use the word “subtle” in my response. I couldn’t tell you what the question was or why I needed to use that particular word, but that day, I could not spell it. And when I said I couldn’t spell it, I mean, just that.
I tried. S..u…t?
Wait. That’s not right. S…u…t..t..l..e?
Shaking my head, I took a deep breath and tried again.
S…u…t…
And again.
S…u…(exhale)…t? Dammit!
I closed my eyes and attempted to let my fingers sail across the keyboard, hoping that part of my (pregnant) brain would kick in and spell the word subconsciously.
Nope. That didn’t work.
Spellcheck?
Nope, it kept correcting to settle, scuttle, or shuttle.
After spending a good ten minutes on this one word, I said screw it and sent it out into the professional writing world, knowing I’d misspelled it. My brain and body were simply too tired to care, but I knew I’d hear from someone.
And I did.
Within a few hours, I got a private message stating, “By the way, it’s subtle.”
That’s right! There’s a B in the middle of it.
I could’ve been totally annoyed, but whatever. One stinking mistake didn’t make me a failure. I emailed back, explaining I tried for ten minutes to spell the word and my pregnancy brain simply wouldn’t have it.
The response I received couldn’t have been scripted. She wrote, “Really? I’m the editor for *Fit Pregnancy Magazine. We’re doing a survey on pregnancy brain. Are you having a boy or girl?”
I wrote back, telling her we were having a girl and decided I might as well bite the bullet and pitch her a short story for their “How I told him” page.
And she bought it.
These are the kinds of real situations I make sure to include in my stories. Whether I’m writing about a family who lives in the Texas Hill Country, a woman who’s navigating her life after running out of her wedding, or a group of doctors and nurses re-inventing themselves in Montana, those real, insane, imperfect events have to be my favorites. It makes true escapism so worth it and if I may say, my wonderfully flawed characters are waiting to sweep you off to their imaginary worlds.
How’s that for some subtle self-promo?
Check out Patricia on social media and her website (that’s getting a facelift right now).
www.patriciawfischer.com
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Tagged: contemporary romance, Guest Blogger, Texas Posted in General, Real Life | 3 People Said | Link
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Thursday, August 6th, 2020
Life brings challenges. We all know that, right? As we find ourselves doing battle with a terrible virus that has swept the globe, it’s caused many of us to wake up and realize what’s truly important in life. Family and friends top that list. Without them, we struggle. I know that too well. A few years ago, I found myself floundering. Some big life things hit me, and I lost my love of writing. I even lost my passion for reading. I’ve always been a reader, and yet, I didn’t care about those fictional worlds anymore. Then the dreaded menopause monster kicked me while I was down, sucking the life right out of me. I honestly thought my writing days were over and that sent me into a downward spiral. After all, without writing, what am I? All those story ideas in my head, those characters talking to me every day had suddenly gone silent.
Writer’s block is the official term. Honestly, it was so much more than that.
I felt as if I had nothing that I could call my own. It’s a terribly dark place to be. The people in my life tried to help, but it’s a solitary journey, to tell the truth. It wasn’t until my health started to suffer, that I realized I needed to take control. I started with exercise, which inevitably led to eating better. My mood improved, and the mental fog began to clear. The story ideas started trickling in. Yes! Before I knew it, I was writing and reading again. I’m thankful for authors like Shannon McKenna, Laurann Dohner, Delilah Devlin, Nalini Singh, and Lucy Monroe for getting me through the darkest days. Their stories kept me sane.
And since August of last year, I’ve managed to release six brand new books. I’m proud of that accomplishment, but it’s only a drop in the bucket. My writer’s brain never sleeps now. And you won’t hear me complaining, lol. I’ve started a new steamy contemporary romance series titled, Men of Silverlake. The first three books are available for purchase: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B086XCR45Z And I’ve dipped my toes into the paranormal romance genre. I’m having such fun, too! The first two books in my Zenarian series can be found here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B084VLYQKT
Dyre: Zenarians, Book 3 (Coming Soon)
She will test his allegiance…
As the leader of the red guard, Dyre is aware that most Zenarians fear him. He’s often been forced to use that fear to uphold the six laws and protect the Zenarian race. With the rebel faction increasing their numbers every day, all his focus is centered on securing the mountain they call home from any and all threat. When he spots a human female much too close to their border, Dyre quickly captures her. His intention to interrogate the pretty brunette goes up in smoke the instant his wings encircle her small, curvy body. She stirs his creature. When Dyre notices the cuts and bruises littering her fair skin, he breaks protocol and brings her home.
Jade is on the run from the law. Or more accurately, the law according to Granger Wasser. As sheriff of Macone County, Granger has appointed himself judge and jury and everyone in town is too afraid to oppose him. When Jade turns down his marriage proposal, it sets off a chain reaction that forces her to flee to parts unknown. Imagine her surprise when she runs smack into a crimson-winged alien! His gentle touches ignite her blood and Jade wants nothing more than to surrender to the wildfire brewing between them. Still, Dyre is a man. And trusting a man is how she ended up falling down the rabbit hole to begin with.
Read more about the Zenarian race here: https://www.annerainey.com/zenarians-series
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Happy reading,
Anne Rainey
Tagged: alien romance, contemporary romance, erotic romance, Guest Blogger, paranormal romance Posted in General, Real Life | 10 People Said | Link
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Friday, July 31st, 2020
UPDATE: The winner is…Elaine Mulder!
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I checked the calendar this morning and had to do a double-take. We’re at July 31st! July 31st! Has this year flown by for you like it has me? Sure, it’s been a very strange year. One for the history books in so many ways. A year where we’re living from one disaster to another. Plus, we’re stuck at home.
I had to think back to my childhood where we stayed glued to the TV through JFK’s assassination, the moon landing, the Viet Nam war. (An aside, one of my most vivid memories was watching a reporter get shot and having a South Vietnamese medic wrapping his leg with a tourniquet—while he continued his report!) Now, we (maybe just I?) can watch news 24/7. I’m listening to the news while I’m typing this! It’s crazy. Not healthy, I’m sure, but I feel like I have to know the second when the zombie apocalypse starts! Because that’s next, right?
In the meantime, it’s the end of July. I did plenty of work this month but don’t yet have a new book to share. That happens in August. Check out Cage, if you’re ready for another sexy bounty hunter. I did a s*$t-ton of editing for other folks. I painted my ass off. I spent a lot of pool time with the kids. So, I wasn’t lazy. I just wasn’t writing fast enough. I realize I’ve been using my family’s self-isolation as an excuse to…watch more movies with the family, participate in meal preparation, playing with the little ones, playing with a new hobby that provides me joy… Maybe that makes me a bad writer, but I’m not caring. 🙂
These contests are still open!
- Susan Saxx: Nathan Unwrapped (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
- Storytime — A Puzzle Contest — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Grey: Why gay romance? (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
The Puzzle-Contest
For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, tell me the story that goes along with this picture!
Tagged: COVID-19, game, jigsaw, puzzle Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 11 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Debra Guyette - Mary Preston - flchen1 - EILEEN AIREY - Elaine Mulder -
Tuesday, July 28th, 2020
UPDATE: The winner is…Eileen Airey!
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Does it feel as though the days are just blending together? I had to check the calendar to figure out what day of the week it was. There’s a sameness that’s just a bit numbing to my days now.
There are bright spots. The 7-year-old has decided that my bed is the softest, so she comes toodling in at bedtime with a smug smile. She knows I’ll flip back the covers and let her join me. Then we’ll lie side-by-side in the dark and talk about what’s happening with her favorite YouTube personality. The pool is another highlight. I mostly bob around on a noodle, enjoying the giant bathtub (the pool’s temp is right around 90 degrees!). It’s so relaxing if I stick to the side opposite of where the 7-year-old and 11-year-old are trying to drown each other in “sea battles.”
I have a book to finish and two sets of edits to work on. Plenty to keep me busy. And I’m trying to slowly get control over my craft room/office sprawl. So, yes, plenty to do.
The fall will look a lot like the summer, minus pool time. Our school district is offering an online option for students, so we’re opting for that. Gah!
The Puzzle-Contest
For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, tell me a story about what’s happening in this picture!
Enter these contests while you can!
- Poll Results! And Tell Me a Story! (Contest–2 winners!) — Win a FREE cowboy book!
- Susan Saxx: Nathan Unwrapped (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
Tagged: game, jigsaw, puzzle Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 9 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: bn100 - Debra Guyette - Mary Preston - flchen1 - Eileen Airey -
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