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Thursday, January 6th, 2022
Hello all! My name is Jaiyde Thomas, and I am an indie author of mm romance. I love books with lots of angst, a character-driven plot, and of course, lots and lots of sex or BDSM scenes. My favorite romance tropes are hurt/comfort and first-time gay, and I’m a sucker for happily-ever-afters. What I wish to see more in fiction, whether it be TV or books, are disabled characters.
I have been blind since birth. I was told that because I was born premature (1lb. 6oz.), I was placed into an incubator to help with my growth and development. Too much oxygen to my brain led to my cause of blindness, retinopathy of prematurity, which is an eye disease that causes abnormal blood vessels to grow in the retina in premature babies. I was in the hospital for two months before my mother was allowed to take me home. At some point, I was also diagnosed with glaucoma, which is increased pressure in the eyeball that causes vision loss.
Being blind had its challenges and its advantages. As a young child, I had moments of doubt because of my disability, and I felt I was different when I was around sighted peers or family. I had many passions as a young girl that kept me feeling normal, and one of them was reading. The Library for the Blind would send me stacks of books, and I would sit on the floor and devour all that I could. Sometimes, I wouldn’t even take off my shoes after school, or I’d be late for dinner, my Granny having to call me multiple times before I understood: stop reading and come eat. Then, I was allowed one day to bring a Braillewriter home from school, and that started my writing journey.
I won’t bore you with my entire life story, but I started writing songs and short stories at around age nine. Then, in seventh grade, I decided to write my first story about a teenage pregnancy. When I became bored with that, I wrote a seven-story series based off my own experiences in high school. In one of them, the main character is blind for a few months, but regains her sight soon after. I wanted her to deal with what I was in real life.
In 2020, under my other pen name, Kelanie Black, I created The Red Lair book series. The focus for this was to show that disabled people, such as the blind, could explore BDSM just like sighted people. Each book had one or two blind characters, each dealing with their exploration of the lifestyle and disability in a different way. After the series was completed, I had decided to try my hand at a new genre: mm romance.
A question online made me push forward writing disabled characters. I will address it below:
Why do you always write about blind people?
Firstly, I don’t believe that we as disabled persons get enough recognition. In TV shows and movies, there are some, but they only have a small role where they are seen and forgotten about, or the disabilities are portrayed inaccurately. I haven’t read a book that includes sex and disabled characters, but I’m sure they’re out there.
Secondly, BDSM is stigmatized just like blind people having sex. People think that because we are blind that someone has to help us all the time and watch over us 24/7. That’s far from the truth! I know many blind people who enjoy sex and BDSM and don’t have a sighted person with them to guide them. We are just normal people, we just do things a bit differently, and we may need accommodations to do them, but we still get things done.
Finally, I write about blind people exploring the BDSM lifestyle so that I can educate others. If you aren’t blind, you wouldn’t know what the day-to-day experience of a disabled person is like. I encourage questions, comments, and even feedback regarding blindness, BDSM, accessibility, because how will you learn if you don’t ask?
Thank you so much for having me! I will post my socials below, and please feel free to follow, friend, and PM me with anything of interest that catches your eye from this post or questions.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaiyde_thomas
Twitter: www.twitter.com/jaiyde_thomas
Facebook page: www.facebook.com/jaiyde.thomas2142/
Website: www.trustsayyes.blogspot.com
Claim Me, Love Me by Jaiyde Thomas
The Red Lair series by Kelanie Black:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GLM4WWH?binding=kindle_edition&ref=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_pc_tukn
Tagged: contemporary romance, disabled, gay romance, Guest Blogger Posted in General | 4 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Anna Taylor Sweringen - cara - ButtonsMom2003 - Jaiyde Thomas -
Wednesday, January 5th, 2022
UPDATE: The winners are…Laura and K. Campos!
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Besides my series, I have written some very sexy standalone stories, too! I forget about them because I’m so busy trying to keep up with series, but I shouldn’t. In fact, I should go back and look at my workplan, because I deserve to write something completely fun and one-off!
If you haven’t read the books below, now’s your time to peruse this incomplete list, and I’m including an excerpt from one of them so you can sample some of the fun. Several of them are menage stories, so if that’s your thing, be sure to check them out!
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share something about yourself others might find interesting!
Click on any cover to learn more about the story!
Excerpt from Fun with Dick and Jane…
Tuesday
They were going at it again, and he was gonna get arrested. Which would be pretty damn embarrassing, considering he was cop.
Like clockwork, the couple across the alleyway started banging the minute his car pulled into the garage.
A sight impossible to miss. The street along the back of the parallel rows of one-story houses wasn’t much of a buffer. Driveways spoked off the narrow, paved road, and only twenty feet separated his garage from the bedroom window across the way.
Last night, he’d loosened the garage light bulb to make sure it didn’t give him away when the door slid up. Tonight, he’d flicked his car’s overhead lamp switch off so that the light wouldn’t beam the moment he exited his vehicle. Carefully, he closed his car door, pushing it with his hip to muffle the click as it locked, then walked around to the back of the car to lean his ass against the trunk and watch the show.
They had to know anyone walking by could see every damn thing—every drop of sweat, every short curl of pale blonde hair. She faced the window, clutching the bottom windowsill, her breasts bouncing every time Boyfriend slammed her ass.
God, her tits were Grade-A prime. Cherry nipples topping creamy mounds.
Her blue eyes closed, her mouth rounded, and he knew when she came because she always wore the same expression—her cheeks growing rosy, her eyebrows drawing together tightly, and the corners of her mouth curving like the cat that licked the cream.
And if the wind hadn’t been whistling through the alley, he would have heard the whimper she gave when Boyfriend milked the last little contraction of her orgasm.
Fuck. He needed his own woman. Maybe she had a twin. Because he sure as shit wouldn’t be satisfied with anyone who wasn’t her, Jane Peabody—Jane Hotbody as he’d begun to call her in his head. He’d had her plates run so he’d have a name to assign the woman who’d played a starring role in all his fantasies these past couple of weeks.
At last, the couple finished and Boyfriend was pulling her into his arms, wrapping them around her belly and cupping those beautiful breasts as she snuggled her back against his chest.
It was time to leave. The show was over for the night.
Then her eyes opened, and Garrett Masters could have sworn she looked right at him. He cussed softly, straightened, and raised his arm, pulling down the garage door and shutting off the sight of her mouth stretching into a wide grin.
Tagged: contemporary romance, cowboys, erotic romance, excerpt, Flashback Posted in About books..., Contests! | 11 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Eileen McCall - Debra Guyette - ButtonsMom2003 - K. Campos - Delilah -
Tuesday, January 4th, 2022
So, you remember this sexy cover, right?
Well, I need to choose the image for the next Brotherhood Protector story. Help me choose! It’s between these two…
Thanks for voting! And be sure to check out the open contests below!
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Open Contests
- Flashback: Hard SEAL to Love (Contest–2 Winners!) — This one ends soon! Win a FREE book–2 winners!
- Meet Izzy Archer! (FREE BOOK) — Everyone can have a FREE book!
- Me, right now. Nuff said? (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
- A New Year’s Puzzle & Open Contests! Come Play! — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Tell me a story… (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
Posted in Contests!, General | 5 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Laura - Colleen C. - Joy Boutwell - Cara - Delilah -
Monday, January 3rd, 2022
1/10: Available dates updated!
I have blog dates available here! Promo new releases, pre-orders, subscription pushes, weekend book boyfriends, old releases… It’s completely up to you. See available dates below!
NOTE: Email me directly at delilah@delilahdevlin.com with your response!
Hey there, Authors! I like to host a guest blogger at least three times a week on my blog. Right now, I need to line up bloggers for dates from January through March 2022. Be quick to grab a date before it’s gone!
I will need bloggers for the following dates:
March 3, 6, 9, 10, 11, 14, 17, 21, 23, 24, 27
If you are interested in being a guest, please look at the available dates and let me know if you would like me to pencil you in. I advertise the daily blogs widely. I have 2,955 blog subscribers who get posts sent straight to their email inboxes every day. My blog also feeds to my Facebook page, which has 4,966 friends, and my Fan Page, which has 4,335 follows. I also post the blog to my Pinterest—total followers 21.2k. If a date isn’t listed but is particularly significant for you, ask me about it anyway! I do try to work people in.
I prefer posts that talk about something more than just new releases, but you have room at the bottom of the post for covers, blurbs, links, and short excerpts. You can talk about hobbies, what’s important to you, what inspired this particular book—the field’s wide open, but remember, we wish to appeal to readers rather than other writers. Please keep the number of pictures you want posted to no more than 2 although that’s not a hard and fast rule. And readers love contests and love questions only they can answer that allow them to interact with you!
If you’re interested, contact me! Give me your preferred date(s). First come, first served.
New York Times and USA Today Bestselling Author & Freelance Editor
Tagged: blogging Posted in General | 2 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Jaiyde Thomas - Delilah -
Monday, January 3rd, 2022
UPDATE: The winner of the gift certificate is…Charlene Whitehouse!
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I bought this brainstorming tool years ago at some writers’ conference I attended. You roll the dice then use the pictures on the faces of each piece to make up a story. I’ve found it’s fun for readers, too!
To make this game more fun, I’ll offer a prize—a $5 Amazon gift card—good for purchasing one or two stories…
Have fun with this! The story doesn’t have to be long or even good! Here’s the roll…Â
Tagged: game, story cubes Posted in General | 8 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Colleen C. - bn100 - Mary Preston - Debra Guyette - Delilah -
Sunday, January 2nd, 2022
UPDATE: The winner is…miki!
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Am I the only one who still sets New Year’s Resolutions? Solve the puzzle and comment for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card!
Open Contests
Gabbi Grey: What’s with instalove? (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
- ‘Twas Days After Christmas… (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Flashback: Hard SEAL to Love (Contest–2 Winners!) — Win a FREE book! 3 winners!
- Meet Izzy Archer! (FREE BOOK) — Get a FREE book, everyone!
- Me, right now. Nuff said? (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
Tagged: game, jigsaw, puzzle Posted in Contests! | 16 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: ButtonsMom2003 - Debra Guyette - miki - Beverly - Delilah -
Saturday, January 1st, 2022
UPDATE: The winner is…Stacey Kinzebach!
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Are you with me? I stayed up to toast the New Year with the family. Of course, we decided that since it was midnight on the east coast, that was good enough for us, so we really toasted it at 11:00. 🙂 The kids drank sparkling grape juice. My SIL drank Crown, while I had two shots of Fireball. I placed my lucky penny, burned my sage, and then I slept really, really well.
Then I had to wake up this morning, and wouldn’t you know, I had a hangover. Once upon a time, I could hold my liquor. Anyway, my plans are all updated. I did my first of the month bills. I’m rereading Cowboy, so I know where to start with Eli’s story…
I think I’ll call it a day.
Let me know how you spent your first day of 2022 for a chance to win a FREE download of a book from my backlist. Happy beginning of 2022, y’all!
Posted in Contests! | 15 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: bn100 - Karla C. - ButtonsMom2003 - Beverly Blank - Delilah -
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