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Sunday, September 29th, 2024
Report Card
Last week…
- Last week was one week after Chemo Week. The last time around, by Monday, I was almost back to my usual self, energy and discomfort-wise. This time around, it wasn’t until yesterday, Saturday, that I didn’t want to spend all my time in bed rather than forcing myself to go through the motions of being “normal.” I had hoped this chemo thing would be something I’d adjust to and I could get on with my life. Again, I’m adjusting my expectations and my schedule as a result. I know it’s got to sound a little weird, but I have to keep notes and plan my life because that’s part of who I am.
- Because I wasn’t fully back up to speed last week, I canceled the pre-order for Ignition. If you’ve been waiting for it, I apologize.
- I worked on edits for one author, sporadically. I should have completed them, but I’m close.
- The family is still being lovely to me. The 15-year-old and I have movie nights, where I choose a classic to share with her. Hot Fuzz was very enjoyable. The 11-year-old has really taken to crochet and comes down to raid my yarn stash often. Then, she sits, and we watch reruns of Reba (her current favorite sitcom) together while she crochets and I enjoy the company.
This next week…
- This week, now that I feel a bit better, I’m going to push to get as much work done as I can before Chemo Week begins next Monday.
- It’s the end of the quarter, and I have to update all my plans. The calendar is looking a bit bare. I’m keeping my expectations low of what I can accomplish, until December, when my current rounds of chemo are scheduled to end.
- This week, I’m working on an editing project for one author.
Open Contests
Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs!
- Just a quick update and a Word Puzzle! (Contest) — Last day to enter!Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Are you ready for hot cocoa season? — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- What does this mean to you? (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
- Anna Taylor Sweringen/Michal Scott: Mary Church Terrell – Lifting As She Climbed (Contest + Excerpt) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Pretty Scribbles Puzzle and a Question (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Vintage Board Games — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Sunday, September 22nd, 2024
Report Card
Last week…
- Last week was Chemo Week, beginning with the infusions on Monday. It hit me hard midweek, lingering through Saturday. All the usual symptoms: chemo flush, muscle and joint aches, difficulty sleeping, overall weakness, etc. Very uncomfortable. However, this time, depression did not set in. I medicated as minimally as I could and waited it out, working in short spurts in the mornings before throwing in the towel to rest. I feel like I napped the week away, which is a strategy, I guess.
- Once Upon a Legend, my Western novella, released this week! I hope you all picked up a copy!
- I worked on edits for one author and completed them.
- My daughter, the girls, and my SIL continue to be the best support I could ask for. They wait on me hand and foot when I need it, and encourage me to move when I need that nudge. I really am very, very lucky to have them.
This next week…
- This week I only have to see my chemo clinic team once for a blood draw and a white blood cell booster shot. Yay!
- I have to wrap up Ignition. It’s the fourth and last book in the Delta Fire series. I moved the release date to October 1st. I hope I’ll have the energy to create, otherwise, I’ll have to cancel the release. It’s just two, maybe three chapters, but that feels like too much right now.
- I’m working on an editing project for one author this week.
Open Contests
Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs!
- Tell me a story: Sweet dreams are made of these… (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Report Card, Open Contests, and a Puzzle Contest! — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Grey: The Paranormal Story I’ve Always Wanted to Tell (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Just a quick update and a Word Puzzle! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Are you ready for hot cocoa season? — Win an Amazon gift card!
Tagged: erotic romance, historical romance, Motivation, planning, Western Posted in Cancer Journey, Contests!, Real Life | Someone Said | Link
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Sunday, September 15th, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…Anna Marie Flamini!
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Just a reminder before I blast you with Sunday’s post! I have a novella arriving early Tuesday morning! Have you pre-ordered your copy?
Once Upon a Legend is sexy fun set in the Wild, Wild West with a lawman who doesn’t know quite what to think about the woman who falls into his arms from the stagecoach and starts telling him of the danger coming his way… Enjoy!
Report Card
Last week…
- I guess it’s supposed to be traumatic, but on Monday morning, I showered and, as I was washing my hair, my fingers dragged away clumps of hair. It was time. My dd and the 20-year-old shaved me bald.
- Last week was ridiculously busy with appointments. On Monday, I saw my oncologist. He didn’t like my white cell blood count, so he gave me another WBC booster shot. On Tuesday, it was another trip to the city to have tests run at the hospital where the port installation surgery would take place. Then, I had the surgery on Thursday. I now have my “borg” port.
- On Wednesday, my SIL drove me to the nearest military installation an hour and a half away to get me a new ID card. I was a little bummed that my hair didn’t last long enough for the photo. LOL
- I worked on edits for one author. I also took care of a lot of administrivia—you know, stuff that has to be done but doesn’t move the goalposts or pay the bills.
- My daughter, the girls, and my SIL continue to be amazing. All four girls in the house were there for me on surgery day even though we had to begin the drive at 4 AM. I really am the luckiest Nina in the world.
This next week…
- This week is “Hell Week.” Um, by that I mean I have another chemo treatment on Monday. What follows for the rest of the week will not be pleasant.
- Once Upon a Legend releases on September 17th! I hope you get your copy!
- I want to wrap up Ignition. It’s the fourth and last book in the Delta Fire series. I moved the release date to October 1st. I’m not sure I’ll have the energy to create, so I might have to push off finishing until the week after.
- I’m working on editing projects for two authors this week. Two that I have to finish. So, I’ll be hoping for an hour or two of lucidity every morning to putter away.
Open Contests
Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs!
- Word Search: Signs Fall is coming… (Contest) — This ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Movie Night! — This ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Tell me a story: Sweet dreams are made of these… (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Katherine Eddinger Smits: Cassadaga, Florida: Spirits, Ghosts, and Mediums (Contest + FREE Read) — Win an Amazon gift card. Plus, pick up a FREE Read!
Puzzle-Contest!
Because I had a guest yesterday, I didn’t run my Saturday Puzzle-Contest! So, let’s do it today!
For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, solve the puzzle… It’s a photo of a ridiculously, aesthetically pleasing woman hanging laundry. I can’t seem to resist these “cottagecore” photos. Anyway, solve the puzzle then tell me whether you still hang laundry to dry outside.
Tagged: game, historical romance, jigsaw, Motivation, planning, puzzle Posted in Cancer Journey, Contests!, Real Life | 13 People Said | Link
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Sunday, September 8th, 2024
I’m updating plans for the week. I have to cram as much as I can into this week because next week is chemo on Monday, and based on the last round, I know I’ll be toast for the rest of the week. I’m trying to get a little ahead of myself and pre-post some things, so I don’t have to even think about work next week. We’ll see. I’m still not functioning at my pre-chemo level—and I do know how ridiculous that sounds, but I have to have goals!!!
Report Card
Last week…
- Recovery from chemo continued. Insomnia, lack of stamina are lingering issues. I had a blood draw on Thursday and had to rush to Hot Springs to the main clinic for a white blood cell booster shot. My WBC count was in the toilet.
- Workwise? Progress was uneven. On good days, I powered through edits for myself and one author.
- My daughter, the girls, and my SIL continue to be awesome. They get me to my appointments, see that I’m fed, and make sure I’m included in some family activities so that I feel “connected.” They keep me grounded and happy.
This next week…
- This week will be ungodly busy. I have an appointment with my oncologist, an appointment with the surgeon who will install my chemo port, and the port surgery at O-dark-thirty on Thursday.
- I will complete revising and upload Once Upon a Legend, which releases on September 17th!
- I want to wrap up, Ignition. It’s the fourth and last book in the Delta Fire series. I moved the release date to October 1st.
- I’m working on editing projects for three authors this week and am determined to complete two.
- Hopefully, I’ll get out of the house this week for something fun. I want to stretch my legs at the flea market. I have to start walking since I can’t swim—and it has to be this week because next week is chemo week.
Open Contests
- Gabbi Grey: A Little Risqué (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win a FREE eBook or audio book!
- Krysten Lindsay Hager: Top 10 Favorite TV Shows to Escape With (Series FREE in KU!) — Be sure to pick up the series for FREE in KU!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Signs of Fall…? — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Happy Labor Day! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Word Search: Signs Fall is coming… (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Movie Night! — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Sunday, September 1st, 2024
I skipped my usual end-of-month summation/plan yesterday. Who wants to recap the month from hell, right? Short-term goals are what I’m working on now, so I’ll just give you my weekly recap/plan to help me keep on track and let you know what’s up. Today, I feel focused/unfuzzy. That’s good. I even made a list of things I want to accomplish today. Lists are comforting to this former project manager. 🙂
Report Card
Last week…
- I began chemo. It completely obliterated me for over five days. I know now that I can’t plan to accomplish a damn thing during my “chemo week.” Monday and Tuesday, not so bad. Wednesday and Thursday—gutting and exhausting. Friday, baby steps back. Saturday, take it easy, but get back to work slowly. I only have to do this every three weeks. Gah!
- I accomplished nothing, workwise.
- Other than on Monday, after chemo when I was still feeling a little bit of energy, there was no swimming. Pool season is now officially over for me. The water is too cool, and the weather has dumped a bunch of rain and leaves.
- My daughter, the girls, and my SIL have been awesome. They did everything for me, keeping me fed, watered, and keeping me company when I wanted it. I’m very, very lucky.
This next week…
- This week I’ll finally get the chemo port installed in my chest. I also have a blood draw so the doctor can monitor my progress.
- I have a new story I want to wrap up, Ignition. It’s the fourth and last book in the Delta Fire series. I moved the release date to October 1st.
- I’m working on editing for another author this week. I plan to finish by next weekend.
- I’ll be editing a story I’m republishing that no one has likely read. Hope you like Westerns with quirky humor, plenty of kink, and a hint of paranormal. Once Upon a Legend is up for pre-order now!
- Hopefully, I’ll get out of the house this week. I want to stretch my legs at the flea market. Start walking since I can’t swim.
Open Contests
On the Delilah’s Collections website!
- In One Picture: Elle James’s “Sex, Spies, and Subterfuge” (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- In One Picture: A.J. Harris’s “Secret Garden” (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- In One Picture: Darah Lace’s “Most Wanted” (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
- In One Picture: Cindy Tanner’s “Mayday” (Contest–2 Winners!) — Win a FREE anthology—2 winners!
Here, on this site!
- 10 Things to Bring to Chemo (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Summertime Fun! — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Anna Taylor Sweringen/Michal Scott: Hannah Bond – The First African American Female Novelist (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Grey: A Little Risqué (Contest) — Win a FREE eBook or audio book!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Signs of Fall…? — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Sunday, August 25th, 2024
Just a quick note before I bore you with my accomplishments and plans… A few folks out there have generously offered to make me “chemo hats.” I appreciate you more than you know. You asked for my head size, so I took some yarn and wrapped it around the biggest part of my melon, then measured it against a yardstick. It’s 22 inches or 56 cm. If you do make me a hat, you can email me at delilah@delilahdevlin.com to request my mailing address. Thank you.
Report Card
Last week…
- The big thing that happened last week, happened on Monday, and kind of put a shadow over the rest of the week. I finally got my cancer diagnosis, and it took a while for that to sink in. The family was sad. I tried not to be sad. I let that shadow sit for a couple of days, then started in with the bald jokes. We have a plan now. Some hope. We’re marching forward, no more tears.
- I completed edits for one author.
- I set up pre-orders for books I’m republishing that first appeared in anthologies no on has read. One’s a western. The other is a medieval fantasy. Both are sexy as hell. I have my sister working on the covers now.
- I pushed the release of Ignition off by a month. I am going to cancel the release of Built Like Mack because, honestly, I don’t know when I’ll be able to write it. Writing takes stamina.
- There was no swimming last week. I couldn’t after the incision for the biopsy. Then the family let the pool maintenance slide just a bit (they were a tad distracted with me and the start of school) and we have a touch of algae, so that has to be battled before I can get back into the pool.
- My daughter and SIL have been awesome. They bought me a lift chair. You know, one of those recliners that has a motor and helps you up and down out of your seat. I never knew I needed one until the first time I used it. They also moved a bunch of furniture to make room for it.
This next week…
- I begin chemo on Monday. I’ve read tons about the side effects. Seems it hits people differently. I expect fatigue and nausea. I hope it passes quickly. For now, I’m blocking out the week of chemo for any heavy work until I figure out how it hits me. I already have my chemo bag packed: blanket, headphones, chargers, snacks, etc. Thanks to everyone for all the suggestions of what I should bring.
- I will begin some light editing, meaning not many pages a day, for another author.
- Hopefully, I’ll get to swim some this week, if I feel well enough.
- I have no big goals for the week, as you can see, other than get through my first treatment. I’ll let you know how I’m doing. Apparently, there are some folks out there who like reading the details (they’ve told me so). And since I can’t stop my fingers from vomiting my life here, you’re going to know all about it.
Open Contests
On the Delilah’s Collections website!
- In One Picture: Reina Torres’s “In the Dark” (Contest–Two Winners!) — Last day to enter! Win a FREE book! 2 WINNERS!
- In One Picture: Brent Archer’s “Masquerade” (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
- In One Picture: M. Jayne’s “Baby, Take My Hand” (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- In One Picture: Gabbi Grey’s “Thought You Were the One” (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- In One Picture: Elle James’s “Sex, Spies, and Subterfuge” (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
Here, on this site!
- Gabbi Black: When Opportunity Knocks (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Another Power Outage — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Genevive Chamblee: Bookversary — Let’s Celebrate! (Contest) — Win a FREE book!
- 10 Things to Bring to Chemo (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Summertime Fun! — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Wednesday, July 31st, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…ELF!
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Before I get into July’s accomplishments/August’s future plans, I want to take a moment to say thank you to my readers! I woke up to see this today:
It’s the ranking for my latest anthology, Secret Identities: A Boys Behaving Badly Anthology! I could not be more thrilled for the authors inside this collection! I wish I was one of them, but I had to reject the two stories I worked on because they just didn’t make the cut. Not sure why, or maybe I do, but I’ll explain more below.
Anyway, congrats to TEAM SECRET IDENTITIES! And if you haven’t gotten your copy, hit the link above. It’s only $0.99, and there’s something for everyone’s taste in this volume. Did I mention it starts with a big bang thanks to my sister Elle James’s terrific Brotherhood Protectors-related story!?
July
Work-related:
- I published the first book in my Delta Fire series: Burning Up Memphis.
- I revised and published the second Delta Fire book, Hotter with a Pole.
- I revised and uploaded the third Delta Fire book, Rapid Entry, which will release on August 6th! (Have you pre-ordered your copy?!)
- I finished work on Cyrus and published it on July 23rd!
- I finished editing all the stories inside Secret Identities: A Boys Behaving Badly Anthology, and it was published on July 30th!
- I completed 2 editing projects for other authors in July!
Health-related:
- After all my annual scans, bloodwork, etc., that happened in June and July, I thought I was good to go. Full steam ahead. Enjoy the summer, write like mad. However, around mid-month, problems I had been thinking were minor (gas, indigestion, whatever), I started having some real abdominal pain. I thought gallbladder, then maybe appendix. So, I was sent in for a CT scan from my lungs down to my pubic bone. They found something, and statistically, the thing they found derives from metastatic cancer—but it could be inflammation due to infection, so I’m holding out for that, because hey, all that bloodwork and all those scans didn’t find tumors anywhere. Make it make sense. Not panicking, trying to keep busy so I don’t think about it too much. I’d appreciate any thoughts/wishes/prayers.
- I paid attention to what I put in my mouth and lost 8.5 pounds this month!
Happiness-related:
- July was filled again with family activities. We’ve had movie nights at home and special meals where everyone participated in the food prep.
- The pool is finally clear and beautiful. Whether I feel like it or not, I swim at least once a day.
- Art kind of fell by the wayside this month. I have nothing wonderful to share with you. I’ll try better in August!
August
For work-related, I plan:
- To publish Book #3 in the Delta Fire series, Rapid Entry on August 6th!
- To delay the publication of Built Like Mack. I’m not writing much now, and I have a lot to write on this story. I will push off the publication date as far as I can into September. Sorry, I know some of you were looking forward to reading the next We Are Dead Horse story soon.
- To complete Ignition, the fourth book in the Delta Fire series. I only have two or three chapters left. If I can, I’ll have a September release.
- To complete 3 or 4 editing projects in August!
For health related, I plan:
- To get an answer regarding my stomach issues and then move forward.
- To schedule the last of the health-related appointments I need to wrap up: Eye exam and dental exam.
For happiness-related, I plan:
- To fiddle in my art room!
- To spend time with the family—movies, flea market adventures, and pool—before school starts and everything gets complicated!
Contest
Comment on anything you’ve read in this post. Tell me what you’re doing to make yourself happier and healthier, or tell me what you plan to read in August…
Like I said, comment on anything for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card!
Tagged: anthology, BDSM, contemporary romance, erotic romance, Montana Bounty Hunters, Motivation, planning, short story, We Are Dead Horse Posted in About books..., Contests!, Real Life | 11 People Said | Link
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